Today was a pretty good day. I woke up really early and prepped my class, which went "well." I think there will be a lot of work for the semester, but it will be less than in the past. I do feel like we've turned a corner on some things. Teaching won't ever be easy for me here, but it will be more familiar and I'll have better resources and skills.
I saw Ralph today, who is the pastor I'd mentioned. He lives in California now, but had taught at this school before and I'd worked with him as a youth director. It was really fun to see him because he's someone who knows all of the systems.
We saw Linda, Kady, and Tung-tung (the baby) today. Eva really likes to greet smaller babies and had a great time. Sam and Eli showed off their spider-web shooting skills.
We had fraternal fighting over toys today. On the plane, each of Samuel, Eva, and Eli got an "ironman." Sam's is black and blue (he'd requested it) and I found two others on sale at Marshalls for $3. Well, today Emily pulled out the accessory for Eli's and it is pretty cool. Sam told us that Eli had said he wanted to share his ironman with Sam. We went with this as long as Eli didn't want it, but eventually Eli wanted it. Sam got frustrated. I told him maybe he could swap out his ironman for Eli's, but he didn't want to share his... Anyway... Hmmm... so we have some years of mild competition ahead of us. I do get it, sharing is hard, and it's easier to ask others to share than to share what we have. It was an interesting conversation.
Emily's good news today was that the kids have a "replacement class" tomorrow, Saturday. This sometimes happens with holidays, where workers get 9 days but are asked to replace a day on a Saturday. For us, it always feels like "surprise" childcare. We're excited to have a morning to talk, shop, work, or rest in relative peace. We're very grateful for the school here.
On Sunday it also looks like we're going to get to meet Susan, a pastor from the upper midwest whose husband is on a fellowship here. They have two daughters and I've been looking forward to hearing about their transition. It should be a good time ahead of us. We'll also see long lost friend Peter and possibly another local friend. Anyway, it's been some nice encounters. I still am sometimes frustrated with communication between my three employers, but we're doing okay. One of my goals for the semester is to try to stay engaged and positive and focus on areas where I can make the most progress.
Friday, February 22, 2013
Thursday, February 21, 2013
Logistics
The last few days have been filled with logistics: Monday teaching, Tuesday kids to school, Wednesday phones, today bank and local HQ, and then tomorrow/Friday sees us start our second week back.
The weather has been pretty good. Kids are liking seeing the bugs and the like. We're stocked back up on groceries. I was electronics hoarding the last 8 months, so I feel like we're pretty set up right now.We still have other things to do: following up on connections from the US, copy-editing for me, writing for Emily, going to church Sunday, dealing with small things (our stroller here has flat tires and our new stroller has a bent wheel from the airport--not sure how it happened). All OK, but a fair amount to think about.
Today was such an intense day that I did my thing where I wake up at 4am. I wish I didn't do this, but I've tried some work, and listening to music in the dark, and not much is helping. Sometimes I feel like my brain kicks into overdrive, and it's hard to quiet it. I think probably this is just natural given how much we've done the last few weeks. I'm hoping as we settle into a schedule things will quiet somewhat.
We should have some nice visits in the next few week. The Sister Cities program I know of is going to send someone to see us next week and today I'll meet the pastor who I youth directed for during two years in grad school. There's also a grad student I'm supposed to talk to. I think it will be a fun few weeks.
The weather has been pretty good. Kids are liking seeing the bugs and the like. We're stocked back up on groceries. I was electronics hoarding the last 8 months, so I feel like we're pretty set up right now.We still have other things to do: following up on connections from the US, copy-editing for me, writing for Emily, going to church Sunday, dealing with small things (our stroller here has flat tires and our new stroller has a bent wheel from the airport--not sure how it happened). All OK, but a fair amount to think about.
Today was such an intense day that I did my thing where I wake up at 4am. I wish I didn't do this, but I've tried some work, and listening to music in the dark, and not much is helping. Sometimes I feel like my brain kicks into overdrive, and it's hard to quiet it. I think probably this is just natural given how much we've done the last few weeks. I'm hoping as we settle into a schedule things will quiet somewhat.
We should have some nice visits in the next few week. The Sister Cities program I know of is going to send someone to see us next week and today I'll meet the pastor who I youth directed for during two years in grad school. There's also a grad student I'm supposed to talk to. I think it will be a fun few weeks.
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
28 Hours
So, it was 28 hours door-to-door. By now the early contours of our travels should be known: the forgotten key (and busted carrier), the carsick Eli, the backpack left behind (nothing serious, just some snacks), Sam of the deep sleep and confused bowels (enough said). Packing came down to the wire, but got done. Someone helped us check in at the airport and none of our baggage exploded (they did check it, and even left notes inside that said essentially "sorry if we broke all your locks--here's a website telling you how not to have it happen again"). Everything made it with nothing lost or broken. We confiscated Randy's luggage, for which we remain grateful. While it would seem we should be pros at this, this was actually only our second time travelling the whole trip with the three kids, and it perhaps showed. I feel like we're still in our rooky season on this.
I hope our travel did not traumatize Barb and Randy too much, because the packing and transport were doozies. HOWEVER, we are on the other side of it now and things are seeming better. Next time it may be that we should fly to Emily's family first and have my parents pack us out. I think we probably have different family travel traditions, with Extreme Packing Events on my side and with more ordered packing on Emily's side (although she does remember Alan sometimes ended up with no clothes, just stuffed animals). Anyway, there are some lessons to learn here, but I'm still not sure what they are.
There were some hits and misses on the plane. Sam's into a superhero kick, and I got him the cheaper wonder woman (has a sword, fully clothed), but he was sad that it was not the iconic outfit. On the other hand, we also got the kids iron man toys which were a hit and Eli played happily with some of Sam's toys while Sam slept. Tablets and notebooks have all been used (angry birds is a hit), but sound was a problem (airplane headphones were really cheap; none of ours were kid sized; the cabin was pretty loud).
It was a productive last week before we left. I saw two of my favorite congregations, Emily met with her advisor, and I got further into proofs stage on my current book. All in all, great things got done. On this side, we now have a working phone and the children have all done a morning at school and seemed to like it. Sam is a little awkward around people.
At school all of the kids received extensive praise. Eli hid between my legs at first and just beemed. He really liked the play area and had a pretty good morning. Eva also was pretty social at school. Emily says "I'm not worried about them; they're very maleable." Sam looked happy with the attention at first but then had a period where he looked concerned Emily stuck around to help them acclimate. No tears from anyone, but I know also they'll go through phases where they don't want to go.
Anyway, we're back on our feet.
Saturday, February 2, 2013
Last Days
We're down to our last two weekends. Today Lisa and Reina are visiting and it has been fun to see them. They're getting the "full picture" of our life, of twins in diapers, Sam drawing and drawing, kids' books and videos, giggling and crying and whining.... It's been a fun day so far.
The adults took the twins for a walk while Emily's lazagna baked. Aside from a set off fire alarm, it was a pretty smooth evening. For the first time ever I refilled a lazer jet cartridge ($10 instead of $70). This is a small victory in the greater scheme of things, but I felt useful for it. Later in the evening, the cousins all went to a coffee place with Sam, and they returned as snow began to fall. We skyped with Alan this afternoon, and it was really interesting to hear about his life: shooting ranges, and mountain hikes, and new apartment, and upcoming travel. He sounded pretty happy with it all. I also skyped with my parents with the twins earlier and they had enjoyed all talking. Eva's in a kissy-huggy phase now, which is a lot of fun. It doesn't take much encouragment for her to perform.
I had two meetings Friday mornig, with a student in the program where I did my PhD and with a Chinese student I'd met earlier. (Being done with grad school may be a good thing; it is such a stange mix of freedom and doing what other people tell you to do.) Emily had coffee with a classmate/friend in NB. It was not the world's most efficient day, but I've been really grateful for these little chances to connect or reconect. One nice ting about P-Town is that it's a hub in my church and academic worlds, so I've gotten to see people without having to do much travel. Emily's profited from being close to her school and hopefully is caught up with things. She's down to the proverbial six months. There's a point where when you ask PhD students, "how long do you have?" they say something like "hopefully six months." It can still be years, but in theory if the student stays on top of the research and writing, it is possible to finish in a modest amount of time. It's still amazing how much Emily has done in all these years: part time jobs, three kids, one of the world's hardest languages, travel, church life... Sometime we'll settle down a bit.
The last two nights all three kids have danced with after their bath. It's one of the most hillarious things I've ever seen. I use my cellphone to play dance tunes, and they jump right into it. Eli takes a wide stance and does a dramatic walking-stomping motion while he swings his elbow back and forth. Sometimes he gets on the ground and does something like breakdancing. Eva mimics him and occasionaly throws in a hop or two. Sam goes back and forth. They also are chasing each other more. If I say "one, two, three, go!" they'll race through the house. A few nights ago they also played hide and seek. At this age, they are so happy to do the same thing over and over again. They'd disappear into the closet and then reappear. For the first time they can also pretty much play together. It's nice sometimes when they'll play in the bedroom for fifteen or twenty minutes. The other day I was surprised to see Sam reading a superhero book to Eli.
If our shipped goods make it to the island we should be in good shape. I feel mostly reprovisioned. It's a mix of pots and pans, kids' toys, electronics, books, and clothes. Hopefully we won't feel totally overburderned by luggage on the plane. This time we're planning on checking the car seats, and we have a slightly smaller, more maneuverable stroller.
There's always more that could be said! These have been good months. Of course, more could have been done, but we also got probably more accomplished than I thought we would. This week I get back the proofs for the book I've been working on. The kids have all made great strides, and I'm really grateful for babysitter Andrew. He's been engaged and kind and energetic with them. Tonight I was trying to explain to Lisa and Reina that parenting is this strange mix of decision making where there are always unknowns and alternatives. For almost any activity (feeding, sleeping, playing) there is no shortage of opposing views. We're no experts, but I'm really gratified that the kids seem to have been happy and healthy these months and that they've had such a nice range of experiences (lots of family time, trips, libraries, lots of new people, time playing outside and racing cars in the basement).
The adults took the twins for a walk while Emily's lazagna baked. Aside from a set off fire alarm, it was a pretty smooth evening. For the first time ever I refilled a lazer jet cartridge ($10 instead of $70). This is a small victory in the greater scheme of things, but I felt useful for it. Later in the evening, the cousins all went to a coffee place with Sam, and they returned as snow began to fall. We skyped with Alan this afternoon, and it was really interesting to hear about his life: shooting ranges, and mountain hikes, and new apartment, and upcoming travel. He sounded pretty happy with it all. I also skyped with my parents with the twins earlier and they had enjoyed all talking. Eva's in a kissy-huggy phase now, which is a lot of fun. It doesn't take much encouragment for her to perform.
I had two meetings Friday mornig, with a student in the program where I did my PhD and with a Chinese student I'd met earlier. (Being done with grad school may be a good thing; it is such a stange mix of freedom and doing what other people tell you to do.) Emily had coffee with a classmate/friend in NB. It was not the world's most efficient day, but I've been really grateful for these little chances to connect or reconect. One nice ting about P-Town is that it's a hub in my church and academic worlds, so I've gotten to see people without having to do much travel. Emily's profited from being close to her school and hopefully is caught up with things. She's down to the proverbial six months. There's a point where when you ask PhD students, "how long do you have?" they say something like "hopefully six months." It can still be years, but in theory if the student stays on top of the research and writing, it is possible to finish in a modest amount of time. It's still amazing how much Emily has done in all these years: part time jobs, three kids, one of the world's hardest languages, travel, church life... Sometime we'll settle down a bit.
The last two nights all three kids have danced with after their bath. It's one of the most hillarious things I've ever seen. I use my cellphone to play dance tunes, and they jump right into it. Eli takes a wide stance and does a dramatic walking-stomping motion while he swings his elbow back and forth. Sometimes he gets on the ground and does something like breakdancing. Eva mimics him and occasionaly throws in a hop or two. Sam goes back and forth. They also are chasing each other more. If I say "one, two, three, go!" they'll race through the house. A few nights ago they also played hide and seek. At this age, they are so happy to do the same thing over and over again. They'd disappear into the closet and then reappear. For the first time they can also pretty much play together. It's nice sometimes when they'll play in the bedroom for fifteen or twenty minutes. The other day I was surprised to see Sam reading a superhero book to Eli.
If our shipped goods make it to the island we should be in good shape. I feel mostly reprovisioned. It's a mix of pots and pans, kids' toys, electronics, books, and clothes. Hopefully we won't feel totally overburderned by luggage on the plane. This time we're planning on checking the car seats, and we have a slightly smaller, more maneuverable stroller.
There's always more that could be said! These have been good months. Of course, more could have been done, but we also got probably more accomplished than I thought we would. This week I get back the proofs for the book I've been working on. The kids have all made great strides, and I'm really grateful for babysitter Andrew. He's been engaged and kind and energetic with them. Tonight I was trying to explain to Lisa and Reina that parenting is this strange mix of decision making where there are always unknowns and alternatives. For almost any activity (feeding, sleeping, playing) there is no shortage of opposing views. We're no experts, but I'm really gratified that the kids seem to have been happy and healthy these months and that they've had such a nice range of experiences (lots of family time, trips, libraries, lots of new people, time playing outside and racing cars in the basement).
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